So if they had access they'd have to make a conscious effort to pay the bill, will the autopay they'd have to make a conscious effort to stop it. Did I say I need to make sure that bill is paid and on time?
You are responsible for your bill, not others. I don't think any of my accounts allow me to give someone access just to pay my bill. Who cares if Verizon has it, it only matters if AT&T has it.